几年前,我和一个要好的女性朋友在加利福尼亚逛一个杂货店。我们注意到我们顺着每一个货架通道向前走时都会迎面遇上同一个领着儿子的妈妈。这位妈妈基本上没有注意到我们,因为她实在是被她的小孩气坏了,那个小孩正在全神贯注地拉扯底层货架上的物品。这位妈妈越来越不耐烦,便开始冲着她的小孩吼,走过几个通道后,开始拉着他的胳膊摇晃他。这时我的朋友说话了。她是三个孩子的母亲,还是一个先进学校的创 A few years ago, I went to a grocery store in California with a good female friend. We noticed that we met the same mom with his son as we walked along each shelf path. The mother basically did not notice us, because she was really angry with her child, who was preoccupied with pulling the items on the shelves. Increasingly impatient, the mom started shouting at her child and, after passing several passages, started to shake him with his arm. At this moment my friend spoke. She is the mother of three children, or an advanced school