孩子的教育是一门大学问,不必总使用“直来直往”的方式,有时需要换一种。我是一个特别偷懒的家长。对于孩子的学习,我只在该出现时才出现,大部分的时间是放手孩子进行自我管理。比如孩子的学习成绩我很少关心过,一直到孩子那次的试卷拿到我手中签字的时候。那天,她对我说:“爸爸签一下字,可以不?”我看见她的分数——65.5分,很惊讶,从前每次可以考到八九十分的她怎么会考成这样? Children’s education is a university question, do not always use “straight to the ” way, sometimes need to change one. I am a particularly lazy parent. For children’s learning, I only appear when it appears, most of the time is to let go of children self-management. For example, my child’s academic performance I seldom care about, until the child’s papers that took my signature. That day, she said to me: “Dad sign a word, can not? ” I saw her score - 65.5 points, was surprised, in the past every time I can test to eighty or ninety how she would test it this way?