如果你已经做得很多了,那么希望你不要再让自己戴着假面具了,因为一个人的魅力源于真实地呈现自我,这样的人才是最受欢迎的。社会心理学家阿龙森做过这样一个实验:在一个竞争激烈的演讲会上,有四位选手,两位才能出众,而且几乎不相上下,另两位才能平庸。才能出众的选手中有一位不小心打翻了桌上的饮料,而才能平庸的选手中也有一位打翻了饮料。 If you’ve done a lot, hopefully you do not want to let yourself wear masks anymore, because a person’s glamor derives from being truly self-presenting, and such people are the most popular. Social-psychologist A Longsen did such an experiment: in a highly competitive speech, there are four players, two outstanding, and almost comparable, the other two mediocre. One of the outstanding players was accidentally knocked over the table of the drink, but only one of the mediocre players also knocked over the drink.