人生就像在棋盘上下棋一样,就整体局势而言,不拘朝什么方向行动,都应该是有“步”的。把某一步“步”走差了,或因目光短浅,看不出“三步”之外,就很有可能形成败局。但象棋出现败局可以悔棋,而人生形成败局却是不便悔棋的,之所谓败者,不限于事业的失败,也包括性格的失败,处事的失败,心理情绪的失败,婚恋家庭的失败,人生感受的失败。这些败局多源于心理的沉疴和欲望的蛊惑。我们若可以避开这些败局,就可能成为推导事业成功方略的伟人和把握人生幸福的智者。事实上这些败局常存在我们的生活之中,不轻易被我们的悟性所捕捉,一旦它们赫然出现,被我们完全看清时,却多半大势已去,悔之晚矣!这些就是《人生58个败局》的基本观 Life is like playing chess on a chessboard. As far as the overall situation is concerned, actions in any direction should be “step”. It is very likely that the defeat will be made by taking a step away from the step, or because of shortsightedness and failing to see the three steps. But the defeat of the chess can regret the chess, but the life is defeated but it is inconvenient to regret the chess. The so-called loser is not limited to the failure of the career. It also includes the failure of the character, the failure of doing things, the failure of psychological emotions, the failure of marriage and family, the feeling of life s failure. These defeats originated from the psychological depression and the desire of confusion. If we can avoid these defeats, we may become the great men who derive the success of our cause and the wise men who grasp the happiness of life. In fact, these defeats often exist in our lives and are not easily captured by our understanding. Once they are completely revealed, when we are fully aware of it, most of the defeat has already gone and we regret it. These are the “58 defeats in life” The basic concept