无论任何时期,在中小学,班里总会有那么几个问题学生,班主任往往要花费很多精力去化解矛盾,与之谈话,惯用的管理方式对于他们已无法奏效。作为班主任的我们只能选择另外一种表达爱的方式,当我们愿意主动去接近这些问题学生的时候,他们能够感受到这份关注,当我们愿意倾听他们的讲述时,他们会向我们敞开心扉,诉说困惑;当我们在交流中获取信任时,他们定会有所改观! At any time in primary and secondary schools, there are always a few students in the class. The class teacher often takes a lot of effort to resolve conflicts and talk to them. The usual management methods have not worked for them. As a class teacher, we can only choose another way of expressing love. When we are willing to take the initiative to approach these students, they can feel the concern. When we are willing to listen to them, they will open their hearts to us , Tell puzzles; when we gain trust in the exchange, they will certainly change!