今春以来,各种报刊上掀起了热议家风的浪潮,进入3月似乎渐渐波平浪息了。其实,“家风”问题,绝不是一朝一夕、一时一刻能倡导或解决的事。家风问题,说到底,其实是教育的问题。在家庭里,最关键的是父母的言传身教、示范作则;延而扩之,则是祖先的榜样对后代的熏陶影响。如世家大族的家训、家规、家书等等。其实,不提往昔“反传统”历史和集体性的时代作为,只 Since the beginning of this spring, all kinds of newspapers and magazines have set off a hot wave of family style, and it seems that they have gradually taken a wave of interest in March. In fact, the issue of “family style ” is by no means an overnight exercise that can be advocated or solved moment by moment. In the final analysis, the problem of family style is actually a matter of education. In the family, what is most crucial is the parents’ precepts and deeds, and the extension of the expansion is the influence exerted by the ancestors on future generations. Such as family matrilineal family rules, house rules, family books and so on. In fact, we should not mention the past as the “anti-traditional” history and the collective nature, but only