几十年前,我们仅仅是儿女,几十年后,我们也成了父母。如果我们能够真切地重温自己做儿女时的种种心态,也许就能较容易地解开时时让人困惑的孩子的内心之谜。不久前,孩子的班主任捎话来请我到学校去一趟,谈谈孩子在学校的表现。我早有与老师加强联系、紧密配合的愿望,立即兴冲冲地赶到学校。这时正是课间体息,老师把我迎进教室,又立即把我儿子叫到跟 Tens of years ago, we were only children, and after a few decades we became parents. If we can really revisit the mentality we have when we were children, we may be able to solve the inner mysteries of the sometimes confused children more easily. Not long ago, the child’s head teacher sent me a message to go to school to talk about the child’s performance in school. I have long been with the teacher to strengthen contact, the desire to cooperate closely, rushed to school excited immediately. At this moment, it was just the information between classes that the teacher brought me into the classroom and immediately called my son