现在的家庭大部分是独生子女,宝宝的生活条件越来越好,可是宝宝们却变得越来越脆弱,过分溺爱和娇惯使不少孩子心理发展和社会性发展显得不那么协调。一位美国儿童心理卫生专家说:“有十分幸福童年的人常有不幸的成年。”很少遭受挫折的幼儿长大后会因不适应激烈竞争和复杂多变的社会而深感痛苦。因此,在幼儿期幼儿个性形成的过程中让他们经历点挫折是十分必要的,要让孩子充分感受体验挫折,正确认识理解挫折,最重要的是要让孩子掌握方法战胜挫折。 Most families are now only children, the baby’s living conditions are getting better and better, but the babies are becoming more vulnerable, too spoiled and pampered so that many children’s psychological development and social development seem less coordinated. An American child psychologist said: “There are often unfortunate adulthood among those who have had a very happy childhood.” Very few young children who have suffered setbacks will feel pain when they grow up because they do not meet the demands of fierce competition and complex societies. . Therefore, it is very necessary for them to experience some setbacks in the process of early childhood personality formation. Let the children fully experience the frustration and correctly understand and understand the setbacks. The most important thing is to let the children have the means to overcome the setbacks.