一位20多岁的农村青年,向我诉说了他心中的苦恼。 他最怕别人议论,指指点点。干农活时,如果看到有些人凑到一起说句话,他就怀疑这些人在评论自己,心里很不舒服。“我的感觉是,我好像是一个什么怪物,成为人们任意观赏、随便指点的对象,这成了我的一个包袱,一块心病。” “在其他场合你也有这种感觉吗?”我问。 “走亲戚或者串门的时候,这种感觉也很明显。有时我想,亲戚总不能像外人那样,尽找我的 A 20-year-old rural youth told me the distress in his heart. He is most afraid of others talking about, pointing. When doing farm work, if he sees some people talking together, he suspects that these people are uncomfortable in commenting on themselves. “My feeling is, what a monster I seem to be, an object to which people can watch and give advice whenever they want, which is a burden on me and a heartache.” “Do you feel this in other places?” I asked. "This feeling is also evident when visiting relatives or stopping by. Sometimes I think relatives can not always look for me like an outsider