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2002年4月25日,武汉,正历经着一个漫长的雨季。中午12点以后,武汉大学校园的一隅,一名男生从四楼跳下。事后,很多学子回忆那触目惊心的一刻,跳楼的男生当时并没有咽气,他说的最后一句话是:“我好后悔……” 因为怀疑考研有暗箱操作,一气之下,他跳了楼。人难免有一气之下的冲动行为:一气之下说出最伤人的话、一气之下摔了最心爱的东西、一气之下拿刀子捅人、一气之下自残(割腕、撞墙、掴自己耳光)、一气之下辞了职、一气之下与恋人分手、离婚等等。等到气消了之后,我们发现,激情伤人又伤己,很多人会为激情之中所说过的话、做过的事而后悔。然而,并不是后悔就可以弥补得回来,我们同时要为自己的激情和冲动付出代价:工作、爱情、尊严甚至生命。青春充满了激情,然而激情带来的并不都是快乐。如果任由情绪主宰我们的命运,这个世界就会到处充满着火药味。所以,在成长的路程中,我们总要学着管理情绪。激情、冲动往往只是逞能,并非明智之举。退一步,海阔天空。正是这样的信念,鼓舞着成千上万爱激情爱冲动的同辈,健康快乐地活着。
April 25, 2002, Wuhan, is experiencing a long rainy season. After 12 noon, Wuhan University campus corner, a boy jumped from the fourth floor. Afterwards, many students recalled that shocking moment, jumping boys did not breathe at the time, he said the last sentence is: “I’m so sorry ” Because suspected Kaoyan a black-box operation, angrily, he jumped the stairs. People inevitably angrily impulsive behavior: angrily said the most hurting words, angrily fell most beloved things, angrily took a knife to poke, angrily self-mutilation (wrist, hit the wall, 掴 own slap in the face), angrily resigned, angrily Lovers break up, divorce and more. When the gas disappears, we find that passion is hurting and hurting, and many of them regret what they have done in passion. However, not regret can make up for it, and at the same time we have to pay for our own passion and urgency: work, love, dignity and even life. Youth is full of passion, but passion is not always happy. If we allow our emotions to dominate our destiny, the world will be full of gunpowder everywhere. So, in the course of growing up, we always learn to manage emotions. Passion, impulses are often just brave, not a wise move. Take a step back, brighter. It is this belief that inspires thousands of peers who love passion and excitement to live healthily and happily.