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6岁的女儿很要强。她总想第一个到幼儿园,第一个吃完饭,放学后第一个被接。她经受不了任何挫折,作业没得满分就会崩溃大哭,老师没选她参加节目就会一边哭一边求老师让她参加直到“得逞”为止,别的孩子有的东西她也要有。每次遇到这种情况我都是好说歹说,但她有本事一直哭,直到我最后缴械。这么下去如何是好?6岁左右的孩子进入了完美敏感期,想赢怕输很正常,父母要接纳孩子的情绪,认同孩子想拿“第一”的感受,而不是否定甚至打击她。在日常生活中,少传递些结果导向的评价标准,淡化得失、输赢,多关注孩子做事的过程和态度;孩子玩游戏、吃饭时,家长不要过于强调“输
6-year-old daughter is very strong. She always wanted the first kindergarten, the first after dinner, the first one after school was taken. She can not stand any setbacks, cried if she did not get enough points, the teacher would cry while asking her to join the show, and she would not let her attend till the show was over. Other children had something she had . Every time I encounter this situation, I’m good and bad, but she has the ability to cry until I finally disarm. If so, how to do this? 6-year-old children into the perfect sensitive period, want to win the fear of losing is normal, parents should accept the child’s emotions, agree with the child want to get ”first " feeling, rather than denying her or even against her . In everyday life, less delivery of results-oriented evaluation criteria, dilute gains and losses, win or lose, pay more attention to the child’s work process and attitude; children play games, parents should not be too stressed when eating