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我在治疗室里就遇到过不少“反季节父母”。当年幼的孩子最需要父母在身边的时候,他们把孩子托付给别人照看,自己翻山越岭奔事业、忙生意。等到孩子长大需要独立时,他们却事事操心,把孩子当作婴儿管教。这种反季节的养育方式不仅容易导致亲子冲突不断,也极可能损害孩子的心理健康。尊重家庭成长的季节每个家庭都有自己的生命成长周期,就像一年四季,春天就该播种,夏天就是茂盛生长,秋天收获,冬天收敛。家庭也一样,在不同的“季节”有不同的需求,有不同的重点。如果不尊重
I met in the treatment room a lot of “anti-seasonal parents.” When young children most need their parents around, they entrust their children to care for others, turning themselves into mountains and pursuing their own businesses, busy with business. When children grow up and need independence, they worry about everything and treat their children as infants. This off-season manner of parenting not only easily lead to parent-child conflicts continue, it is also very likely to harm the child’s mental health. Respect for the season of family growth Each family has its own life cycle, just like all seasons, the spring should sow, the summer is flourishing growth, autumn harvest, winter convergence. The same is true for families, with different needs in different “seasons”, with different priorities. If you do not respect