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Q 浙江朱女士问:我儿子3岁半了,在平时我经常有意识地给他灌输“诺言”的观念,一道外出或做什么事之前,也常常跟他提前打个预防针,定下一些“规矩”。可是,我发现儿子经常说话不算数,事先答应得很好,到做的时候,就会把事先的“承诺”抛到九霄云外。比如,在一道去商场买东西时,我们提前说好了不买玩具,或者说好了他不许哭闹,他每次都答应得很干脆。可是,真到了商场,他就开始要玩具了,要不到甚至也会动用“哭闹”这个“杀手锏”。请问,我该如何对待孩子的说话不算数?
Q Zhejiang Zhu Ms. Q: My son was 3 years and a half, usually I often consciously instill in him “promise ” concept, go out or do something before, often with him in advance to get a shot, set Some “rules ”. However, I found that my son often speaks very well and promised very well in advance. When he does that, he will put the prior “promise” to the top of the page. For example, in a shopping mall, we said in advance not to buy toys, or say he was not allowed to cry, he promised each time very simply. However, really went to the mall, he started to have toys, or even use “crying ” this “killer ”. Excuse me, how do I treat children’s words?