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俗话说,当医生的治不了自家的病。同理,当老师的也教不好自己的孩子。人家以为我教育孩子有一手,其实我对孩子的了解不如他们的老师。特别是儿子进入青春期后,什么都不肯对我讲,除了饭桌上的闲扯,内心世界对我包得严严实实。有时我竟会产生陌生感:“这是我的儿子么?” 儿子小时候写日记,我要看就乖乖地捧出来,后来大了些怕我看就不写了。老师布置他们写周记,他肯给老师批改,肯让老师在班上念,却鬼鬼祟祟地避着我。有一次,老师布置写《我的妈妈》,引起了我的窥探欲,挺想知道自己在儿子笔下的
As the saying goes, when the doctor can not cure his own illness. By the same token, when the teacher can not teach his own children too. People think I have a hand in educating children, in fact, I know their children better than their teachers. Especially after his son entered puberty, he refused to tell me anything except the idle table, and the inner world was tightly packed with me. Sometimes I would have a strange feeling: “This is my son?” “My son wrote a diary, I want to look obediently holding out, then I’m afraid I do not write a big look. The teacher arranged them to write a weekly note, he was willing to change the teacher, willing to let the teacher read in the class, but sneaked away from me. Once, the teacher arranged to write ”my mom", aroused my snooping desire, very want to know my son’s pen