再过几天就是父亲节了,但是中国人好像不习惯父亲节。我们顺理成章地接受了舶来的母亲节,却对同样是舶来的父亲节久久不能敞开怀抱。在父与子的情感表达上,我们有着无法言述的盲区。 在父母与子女的对话中,父亲往往是缺席的。教育学家认为,这是父亲和母亲性格构成不同造成的。母亲一般情感丰富,在与儿女沟通方面有优势,而父亲一般比较理性,显得缺乏温情。久而久之,孩子见到父亲就 A few days is Father’s Day, but the Chinese do not seem to get used to Father’s Day. We took it a matter of course that we received the Mothers’ Day, but we could not open our arms for the same Father’s Day. In the emotional expression of the father and son, we have unexplained blind spots. In the dialogue between parents and children, the father is often absent. Educators believe this is caused by the different constitutions of fathers and mothers. The mother is generally rich in emotion and has an advantage in communicating with her children. However, her father is generally more rational and lacks tender feelings. As time passes, the child sees the father