孝敬老人一直是中华民族传统美德的重要内容。孔子说,孝者德之本,民间也有“百行孝居先”的说法。长期以来,东西方孩子的孝道观念存在很大的差异。东方孩子都是在父母百般呵护下长大的。父母把对孩子深切的爱,表现在给孩子提供良好的物质条件,孩子要什么就给什么,什么都为孩子弄得好好的,一点儿也不让孩子自己动手,其实这是一种溺爱。于是,孩子们就渐渐在这种优越的 Respecting the elderly has always been an important part of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Confucius said that the filial piety of the virtues of the country, the people also have “hundred lines filial piety ancestors” argument. For a long time, the filial piety of the East and West children has been very different. Oriental children grew up with their parents’ care. Parents’ deep love for their children is manifested in providing them with good material conditions, what the children want, what they can do for their children, what they can do for the children, and not letting the children do it themselves. In fact, this is a kind of devotion. As a result, the children gradually became better