幼儿的基本特质,有一个相当明显的心理倾向,那就是以自我为中心。孩子能够脱离以自我为中心的世界,大约是在九至十岁间。为了让孩子在到达这个年龄以后,能够顺利地从以自我为中心修正为客观思想,必须从幼儿时期就做好心理准备才行。如今的孩子大多数都是独身子女,如果不注意对他们去自我中心的思维训练,会更强化这种自我中心性。这些孩子在家庭中处于“特殊”的中心地带,家中又缺乏能够与之分享物质和情感的兄弟姐妹,加上现在的家长都 The basic characteristics of children, there is a very obvious psychological tendency, that is, self-centered. Children can escape from a self-centered world, about nine to ten years old. In order for a child to be able to smoothly correct himself or herself as an objective thought after reaching this age, he / she must be psychologically prepared from early childhood. Today’s children are mostly single children, and this egocentrism can be further enhanced without paying attention to their self-centered thinking training. These children are at the center of the “special” family and there is a lack of siblings in the family who can share material and emotional experiences with their parents