常见一些儿童,内心很想与其他小朋友一起玩,但自己不敢去,即使别的小朋友主动找他们游戏时,他们也是缩手缩脚,听从别人摆布。很多家长认为这样的孩子“老实”、“乖”。其实,从社会心理学的角度看,这是一种病态心理,即回避型性格异常的萌芽的表现。回避型性格异常多发生在一些独生子女或常年独自跟随成人生活的儿童身上。一般讲,具有这种性格异常的人,很想与别人交往,但又很怕被人拒绝、抛弃、羞辱,结果总是回避,心理上很自卑,行动上畏畏缩缩。虽然儿童具有上述表现,还不能说就形 Some common children, the heart is like to play with other children, but they did not dare to go, even if other children take the initiative to find their game, they are contracted, listen to the others. Many parents think such children “honest”, “good.” In fact, from the perspective of social psychology, this is a morbid state of mind, that is, the evasive performance of evasive personality disorder. Avoid type abnormalities occur in many single children or perennial adults alone to follow the life of children. In general, people with this unusual personality, would like to deal with others, but are afraid of being rejected, abandoned, humiliated, the result is always evaded, psychologically very inferiority, action shrinking. Although children have the above performance, it can not be said