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七、孩子不听话小B是个6岁的小男孩。他的父亲嗜酒,喝过酒后常常当着小B的面和妻子又打又骂。小B也和他们一样暴躁,如果母亲叫他“不要光看电视”或“不要磨蹭,抓紧时间去洗澡”,小B就会发疯似地扔东西,撕报纸,撕书。小B有时在墙上乱涂乱画,妈妈问:“是你乱画的吧?”小B会很生气地否认道:“不是我。”小B在公园里还会毁坏花草,破坏栅栏。父亲如果发现小B不听话,会很生气地打他。小B虽然极力反抗,但终不是父亲的对手,多以号啕大哭而告终。要是母亲打他,他会猛扑上去,咬住母亲不放。严厉训斥也不起作用,相反小B越来越暴躁。用暴力来对待爱搞恶作剧的孩子,只会使孩子越来越反抗,越来越野蛮,没有好的效
Seven, children disobedient Small B is a 6-year-old boy. His father often drank alcohol and drank it after drinking. Small B and they are the same temperament, if his mother called him “Do not just watch TV” or “Do not rub, take the time to take a bath,” Little B will be crazy to throw things, torn newspapers, tearing books. Small B sometimes doodles on the wall, my mother asked: “is your doodle, right?” Small B will be very angry and said: “not me.” Small B in the park will destroy the flowers, destroy the fence. His father would find it very annoying if he discovers that he is not obeyed. Although small B strongly protest, but ultimately not his father’s opponent, mostly crying and ended. If the mother hits him, he will swoop up and bite her mother. Severe reprimand also does not work, on the contrary small B more and more temper. Using violence to treat a child who loves prank will only make the child more and more hostile, barbaric and ineffective