在现实生活里,一个人无论是在工作、学习还是在生活中都免不了会“碰钉子”,这在每个人的人生道路上都是难以避免的。这里的“碰钉子”就是指“挫折”。所谓挫折,是指个体在从事有目的的活动过程中,因客观或主观的原因而受到阻碍或干扰,致使其动机不能实现、需要不能满足时所产 In real life, whether a person is working, studying, or living, he or she will inevitably “hit a nail”, which is unavoidable on everyone’s life path. The “nail” here refers to “frustration.” The so-called setback refers to the individual’s motivation to achieve the purpose of the process, due to objective or subjective reasons to be hindered or interfered, resulting in the motivation can not be achieved, the need to be satisfied when the production