西方医学家和心理学家认为,人的一生中总会遇到各种各样的烦心事,其中令人感到心理压力最大的有15件,其影响力依次为:1、配偶的死亡;2、离婚;3、家庭成员的死亡,尤其是亲生儿女的夭折;4、严重受伤,特别是严重的意外事故导致身体不可弥补的创伤,如造成毁容、残废等;5、结婚,尤其是新婚前后; Western medical scientists and psychologists think that there are always 15 kinds of bothering things in life, of which there are 15 people who feel the most psychological pressure. Their influence is as follows: 1, the death of their spouse; 2 , Divorce; 3, the death of family members, especially the birth of infants and children; 4, serious injuries, especially serious accidents lead to irreparable body trauma, such as causing disability, disability, etc. 5, marriage, especially before and after marriage ;