都说童年经历会对人成年以后的众多方面产生巨大影响,思嘉认为自己这50年的人生历程刚好验证了这一说法。儿时,自己的记忆当中最多的就是父母之间无休止的争吵,甚至吵不痛快时还会动手,也曾因此误伤过她。当心理课上老师谈及女孩子的恋父情结时,思嘉特别困惑,似乎自己从未体验过这种特殊的情感。相反,很小的时候她就会幻想着长大以后能够找到一位与父亲性格完全不同的男人,然后嫁给他,永远不要吵架,自己也千万不要像母亲一样。 Saying that childhood experiences can have a huge impact on many aspects of one’s adult life, Scarlett argues that his 50 years of life have just verified that. Childhood, most of their memory is the endless quarrel between parents, even when the noisy will be hands-on, it has also had accidental injury to her. Scarlett was especially puzzled when the teacher in the psychology class talked about the girl’s Electra Complex, as if she had never experienced such a special emotion. On the contrary, when she was young, she would have fantasized about finding a man who was completely different from his father when he grew up. He married him, never quarreled, and never to be like a mother.