在当代中国,孩子大都是独苗苗,因此,家长们格外“小心翼翼”,也格外舍得“出力投资”,巴不得自己的孩子能够一举成为天下最出色的人才,但在实际操作中的种种失误,却往往事与愿违。失误一:贪多求全,超越了孩子的理解能力与接受能力,导致了“消化不良”和逆反心理。其表现是,家长 In contemporary China, most children are single seedlings. Therefore, parents are exceptionally “cautious” and are especially reluctant to “make investments”. Their own children can become the best talents in the world at one stroke. However, in practice, many mistakes have been made Often contrary to expectations. Mistake one: more than all, beyond the child’s ability to understand and accept, leading to “indigestion” and rebellious. Its performance is, parents