在美国的家庭,大人跟孩子谈话时永远是蹲下来,他们认为孩子虽然小,但也是独立的人,只是他们矮一些,所以应该蹲下来跟他们说话。同孩子脸对脸看着说话能让孩子意识到自己同成年人是平等的,有利于培养孩子自尊、自信的人格。小孩子具有好动的天性。比如在墙壁上乱画,用嘴咬玩具,拿剪子乱划,这在我们国家大人一定会坚决反对,而美国父母们看了会笑嘻嘻的,高兴于孩子学会了某种技能,而不是痛惜某件东西被孩子破坏了,然后耐心地告诉孩子一些操作上的技巧。凡是孩子自己力所能及的事都应尽量由孩子自己去完成,以从小培养孩子对自己负责任的潜意识。 In American families, adults are always crouched when talking to their children. They think that although children are small, they are also independent people, but they are shorter, so they should squat to talk to them. Speaking with your child’s face and face can make children realize that they are equal with adults and conducive to cultivating children’s self-esteem and self-confidence personality. Children have a good nature. Such as doodle on the wall, bite toys with their mouths, scissors scissors, which adults in our country will resolutely oppose, and the United States parents read will be grinning, happy to learn a child skills, rather than deplore a Things were destroyed by children, and then patiently tell the child some operational skills. Anything that a child can do whatever he wants should be done by the child himself as much as possible so as to develop a child’s responsible subconsciousness from an early age.