做为一个女性心理咨询专家,我每天都要接待许多处于痛苦中的女性。我常常为她们叹息,不是为她们的痛苦,而是为了有许多痛苦的女性根本不知道她们的痛苦的真正来源,也不知道其实她们是可以解脱自己的痛苦的。今天我接待的那个求助者就是这样,她有一个极为暴戾的丈夫,可是20多年来她却不知道她的丈夫实际上有心理疾病。幸好她想到了找心理咨询专家倾诉,而另外许许多多的女性,连这 As a female psychological counselor, I receive many painful women daily. I often sigh for them, not for their pain, but for so many women in pain who do not know the real source of their pain or know that they can actually relieve their pain. That was the case for the help-seeker I received today. She had a very violent husband, but for two decades she did not know her husband actually had a mental illness. Fortunately, she thought of consulting psychologists to talk, while many other women, even this