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心理学家把善解人意分为三个方面:有理解别人的愿望;有理解别人的能力;做出良性反应。举个例子说,如果你有伤心事,孩子不是视而不见,而是设法了解究竟发生了什么事,这就是理解别人的愿望。有时你不愿把烦恼、伤心事告诉孩子,但他从你的面部表情、言行举止可以大致猜出你的心事和分量,这就是理解别人的能力。理解了,他就设法安慰你,这就是做出良性反应。善解人意作为一种优良的心理素质,在协调社会人际关系方面有着举足轻重的作用。
Psychologists divide understanding into three aspects: to understand the aspirations of others; to understand the capabilities of others; and to make benign responses. For example, if you have a sad thing and your child does not turn a blind eye, you try to understand what happened and that is the desire to understand others. Sometimes you are reluctant to tell your child about troubles and sorrows. But from your facial expressions and demeanor, you can roughly guess your heart and weight, which is the ability to understand others. Understand, he tried to comfort you, this is to make a positive reaction. As a kind of good psychological quality, understanding has an important role in coordinating interpersonal relationships in the society.