所谓育子成功,并不是要孩子成绩多么优秀,事业多么成功,而是培育一个心智健全、有教养的人。父母当然是第一责任人,那么怎样才能养出有教养的孩子?下面6件事是要点:第一,管理情绪。一个情绪化的家长,很难养出情绪平和的孩子。那些爱发脾气、爱打架的孩子,背后一般都有经常情绪失控的家长;那些爱嚷嚷、没耐心的孩子,也常有脾气急躁的家长。家长处理情绪的方式,会成为孩子学习的榜样。想要孩子有绅士风度、淑女风范,家长先学会控制情绪吧。第二,以身作则。孩子的世界很简单,最初的几年就是模仿身边 The so-called success of childbirth is not about how good a child’s accomplishments are, how successful a career is, but about cultivating a healthy and educated person. Of course, parents are the first responsible persons, so how can we raise educated children? The following six things are the points: First, manage emotions. An emotional parent, it is difficult to raise emotional peace children. Those who love temper, love to fight children, usually behind the loss of parents often have emotions; those who shout, impatient children, often temper parents. The way parents deal with emotions can be a role model for children to learn. Want children have a gentlemanly demeanor, parents first learn to control emotions. Second, lead by example. The child’s world is very simple, the first few years is to imitate the side