一个学生在文章中写到:一天,妈妈正在擦桌椅,叫爸爸帮忙移动一张椅子,爸爸却埋头剪报,没有动。妈妈火起来了,把抹布一扔,又把水盆推倒,水淌得满地都是。这时,爸爸也火了,顺脚把水盆一脚踢飞。为一些小事而突然发火,乱说话、乱摔东西,这就是“情绪短路”的一种表现。电流短路会损坏电器,甚至酿成火灾;情绪短路,既伤害别人,也伤害自己。主要原因是自控与转移情绪的能力不强,而这种能力与智慧水平有关,可以称之为“情感智商”。 One student wrote in the article: One day, my mother was wiping the tables and chairs, asking my dad to help move a chair, and my father cut the newspaper and did not move. Mother fire up, the rags fling, and the basin down, water is full of all. At this time, my father is also a fire, kick the water kick kick. Suddenly angry for some small things, talk nonsense, chaos throw things, this is the “emotional short-circuit,” a manifestation. Short circuit current can damage the appliance, and even lead to a fire; emotional short-circuit, both hurt others, but also hurt themselves. The main reason is the ability to control and transfer emotions is not strong, and this ability and the level of intelligence, can be called “emotional intelligence.”