我是一名男教师,教的是一个农村混合班。班里四十多位小朋友,每天都有哭闹现象发生。起初,我真没有办法,一遇到孩子哭我就赶紧去哄,或者去批评,谁知越哄越哭,连不哭的也跟着哭了起来。为此我苦恼了好一阵子,心想自己要是个女教师就好了。后悔自己当初不应该选择这个职业。可是我转念一想,难道自己真的不行吗?为什么非得女同志才能干这一行呢? 为了想出个好办法,我看了不少的资料,这时我才明白,是自己教育、方法不对。我从有关文章中看到,对待孩子哭的经验是:当孩子哭闹时,你不必理会,最好让他一个人呆着,直到他(她)不再哭为止。可是,我很爱孩子,总觉得这样做于心不 I am a male teacher, teaching a mixed class in rural areas. More than 40 children in the class cry every day. At first, I really had no other solution. When the child cried, I hurried to coax or criticize, who cried more and more, even cried without crying. For this reason, I was distressed for a while, thinking I would be a female teacher. I regretted that I should not have chosen this profession. But why did not I really have a problem? Why did my lesbian do this? In order to come up with a good solution, I read a lot of information. At this moment, I realized that I was educating myself and did not do the right thing . I read from the article that the experience of treating a child crying is that when the child is crying, you do not have to bother about it. It is better for him to remain alone until he or she does not cry anymore. However, I really love children, always feel so do not mind