劝告对方放弃某个观点或改变某种立场,是生活中常见的事,可是,如果对方不希望劝或者根本就不欢迎劝,怎么办? 请看三个古代的事例。 汉武帝迷信,有一次,一个江湖术士曾一本正经地给汉武帝算了一命,说汉武帝必能长寿,理由是:“人中长一寸,可享命百岁。”汉武帝恰好人中长得挺长,听了此言自然十分高兴,在一旁侍奉的东方朔知道此言不当,就打算劝导一下,可是对方是九五之尊 It is common in life to advise the other side to give up an opinion or to change a certain position. However, if the other party does not wish to persuade or simply does not welcome it, please look at three ancient examples. Han Wudi superstition, once, a warlock had solemnly gave Han Wudi a life, said Han Wudi will be able to longevity, on the grounds that: “The length of an inch, you can enjoy life one hundred years old.” Very long, naturally very pleased to hear this statement, served on the side of the East Shuo know this remark inappropriate, intends to persuade, but the other is the respect of the Nine Five