我今年刚毕业工作,但是在和同事交往沟通不怎么和谐,是不是大学毕业生都会遇到这么一种过渡期,心里很沉闷!希望借助你们栏目给我一些心理上的指导或者建议。陈一这样的焦虑其实也是正常的,也是很多年轻人进入社会之后的一个基本的心理状态。其实,你焦虑的是综合的问题,总体来说是适应社会的不畅和受阻。人际紧张,其实就是适应社会的紧张。因为社会环境和学校环境是完全不一样了,你接触的是同事、领导、客户等等,不再是同学、朋友和老师,这些交流的人际模式是完全不一样的。因为你自己还没有适应社会的规则,所以你就焦虑了。我 I just graduated from work this year, but communication with colleagues is not very harmonious, is not a college graduates will encounter such a transitional period, the heart is very boring! I hope with your section to give me some psychological guidance or advice. In fact, such an anxiety Chen is normal, but also many young people into society after a basic psychological state. Actually, you are anxious about the problem of integration. Generally speaking, you are confronted with the sluggishness and obstruction of the society. Interpersonal tension, in fact, is to adapt to social tensions. Because the social environment and the school environment are completely different, you come into contact with colleagues, leaders, customers, etc., no longer classmates, friends and teachers. The interpersonal patterns of these exchanges are completely different. Because you yourself have not adapted to the rules of society, so you are anxious. I