与父母相处时间太短，沟通太少，越来越多的孩子对父母“心理闭锁”居高临下不能树立真正的威信，平等相待未必丧失父母尊严溺爱、娇惯和粗暴的后果一样，让孩子难以自立于社会真是“知子莫如父（母）”吗 中国人把“知子莫如父”常挂嘴边，到如今所谓“知子”已夹带了太多的水 With parents too short access time, too little communication, more and more children to their parents, “psychological blockade” condescending can not establish a real prestige, equality may not be the same as the loss of parental dignity doting, spoiled and rude consequences, so that children can hardly stand on their own In the society is really “Zhuru like a parent (mother)”? Chinese people “Zhuru like Mozu” often talked about, and now the so-called “Zhizi” has entrained too much water