年迈的双亲,他们往往感到自己的能力正一点点丧失。子女不像从前那样需要他们的爱,才是他们晚年最大的自责和悲哀。做子女的怀着感恩的心,在为父母奉献的同时,还应该不忘“索取”一点什么。比如,一双鞋垫,一瓶豆腐乳,一罐辣椒油。物质富足的我们可能并不特别需要这些物质的本身,而需要的是,用这种方式告诉双亲,子女虽已长大但仍离 Older parents, they often feel their ability is a little lost. Children do not need their love, as they used to be, the greatest remorse and sadness in their later years. Children with a sense of gratitude, dedication to their parents, but also should not forget “ask ” something. For example, a pair of insoles, a bottle of fermented bean curd, a can of chili oil. We may not particularly need the substance itself for material abundance, and what is needed is to tell our parents in this way that children are older