《语文课堂标准》指出:“语文课程应致力于学生语文素养的形成与发展。”因此,在教学伊始,就要确定教学目标,确定教学内容,确定合适的教学方法,在整个教学设计和实践过程中,要有自我创新,也要借鉴成功的课堂经验。本文以教学《关睢》为例来展示教师与学生如何“爱中求美,美中求爱。” “Chinese Classroom Standards” pointed out: “Chinese language courses should be devoted to the formation and development of students’ Chinese language literacy.” Therefore, at the beginning of teaching, it is necessary to determine the teaching objectives, determine the teaching content, and determine the appropriate teaching methods in the entire teaching design. In the process of practice and self-improvement, we must also learn from successful classroom experiences. This article uses the teaching “Guan Yu” as an example to show how teachers and students “love in the United States, the United States and China to courtship.”