“妈妈,小明今天打我了。”“爸爸,丽丽抢小朋友的玩具。”孩子“告状”,这差不多是每位家长都会遇到的事儿。那么,我们应当如何看待孩子的“告状”呢?我们只要认真地分析一下,就可以看出孩子的告状一种是和自身有关的,如“××骂我了”;另一种是和自身无关的,如“××欺负小朋友了”。有的家长在遇到第一种情况时,会觉得自己孩子吃了亏而不问青红皂白,拉起孩子就去找人“算账”。 “Mom, Xiao Ming hit me today.” “Daddy, Lily grabs the toys for children.” “Children complain”, which is almost something that every parent will encounter. So, we should look at the child’s “sued”? As long as we seriously analyze, we can see that the child’s complaint is related to oneself, such as “× × scolded me”; the other is with their own Has nothing to do, such as “× × bully children.” Some parents in the first case encountered, they will feel that their children ate loss without asking indiscriminate, pull the child to find someone “forget accounts.”