曾有调查显示,在倾诉对象上,中国孩子把父亲排在网友之后。孩子眼中的父亲往往严厉有余而温情不足,偶尔展露温柔特别动人。6月的父亲节不像5月的母亲节那么隆重和热闹,朋友圈没有被感恩的话语刷爆,商家能做的文章似乎也不多。母爱之表达有点泛滥了,父爱则不太容易表达。作家冰心甚至说过,父爱是沉默的,如果你感觉到了那就不是父爱了!或者说父爱是一种默默无闻、寓于无形之中的感情,用心的人才能体会。 There have been surveys show that in the talk of the object, the Chinese children father behind the friends. The eyes of the child’s father often more severe and less warmth, and occasionally show gentle particularly touching. Father’s Day in June is not as grand and bustling as Mother’s Day in May, and circles of friends are not grateful for words of brushes, and there are not many articles businesses can make. The expression of maternal love is a bit overblown, and the father’s love is not so easy to express. Writers Bing Xin even said that Father Love is silent, if you feel that it is not a father! Or father love is a kind of obscurity, invisible in the feelings, intentions of people can understand.