说到个人修养问题 ,“涵养”总是被看作一个重要的衡量标准。一次 ,前民主德国柏林空军俱乐部举行宴会 ,一位年轻士兵不慎将酒泼到乌戴特将军的秃头上 ,在士兵悚惧时 ,将军轻抚士兵肩头说 :“老弟 ,你以为这种治疗能再生头发吗 ?”将军的大度赢得了众人的尊敬。无独有偶 ,英国 When it comes to personal accomplishment, “conservation” is always seen as an important measure. On one occasion, a former German democracy’s Berlin Air Force Club held a banquet. A young soldier inadvertently spilled the liquor onto General Udaye’s bald head. When the soldiers feared, the general stroked the soldier’s shoulder and said, “Brother, do you think this treatment? Can you regenerate your hair?” The general’s generosity won the respect of everyone. Coincidentally, the United Kingdom