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见过一些这样的人:他们面前好象总是有什么东西堵着、挡着,有人成功了,他觉得自己失败了;有人失败了,他觉得这人太无能;有人高升了,他觉得这人一定用了什么手腕;有人受到一点赞赏,他又觉得这人其实没什么了不起…… 这种人其实是在不停地和别人较劲,而这种较着劲的人,自已又拿不出什么象样的成就来。我想,对这样的人,应该进行劝告了:活着自在一点,别老是跟别人较劲,否则,你肯定是一个不受欢迎的人,同时,你也可能自己就把自己糟蹋了。
Someone who has seen something in front of them seems to be stuck, blocked, someone successful, he feels he has failed; someone fails, he feels this person is too impotent; someone rises, he thinks Some people have been a little appreciated, some people feel a little appreciated, he felt that this person actually no big deal ... ... Such people are in fact constantly competing with others, and such a more energetic people, their own can not get what Decent achievements come. I think, for such people, should advise: live a little more, do not always compete with others, otherwise, you must be an unwelcome person, at the same time, you may also make yourself ruined.