优点单 年轻的初中女教师海伦发现自己所教的班里有不少学生学习很吃力,有一些学生因学习困难甚至有些灰心。为了帮助这些学生增加信心,她就让每个学生用纸写下其他同学的优点,然后她分别抄下大家写给每个人的优点,再把这个“优点单”发给学生自己。学生们看到“优点单”上写的自己的优点,一个个惊喜万分,那些信心不足的学生很快恢复了信心,学习成绩有了明显提高。若干年后,海伦与这个班的学生们一起参加本班一个在战争中死去的学生马克的葬礼,死者的父亲从其遗物中拿出一张曾经打 Advantages Single Helen, a young junior high school teacher, found that many students in the classes she taught were very strenuous. Some students were even frustrated because of learning difficulties. To help these students increase their confidence, she asked each student to use paper to write down the merits of other students. She then copied each person’s merits for each person, and then distributed this “advantage sheet” to the students themselves. The students saw their strengths written on the “Benefits List”. One by one surprise, those students who lack confidence soon recovered their confidence and their academic performance improved significantly. Several years later, Helen joined the students of this class to attend the funeral of Mark, a student who died in the war. The father of the deceased took a hit from his relics.