常言道:“人不可貌相。”又说“鸟美在羽毛上,人美在心灵上。”可是,在实际生活中,“美貌效应”的现象却极为突出:人们见到长相俊俏的孩子,会由衷地喜爱,夸不绝口,亲切热情。孩子的父母更是喜不自胜,恩宠有加。相反,人们对相貌一般的孩子,尤其是长相丑陋的孩子,则缺乏热情,甚至冷淡、歧视、挖苦。人们对待孩子尚且如此,更不用说成人之间了。相貌漂亮的人,尤其是年轻的女子,会在人际交往、婚姻等事情上博得他人的青睐,激起他人的热心,事情往往很好办。相比之下,相 As the saying goes: “People can not be disguised.” They say “birds are beautiful on feathers, people are beautiful in their hearts.” However, in real life, the phenomenon of “beauty effect” is extremely prominent: people see handsome children, Will sincerely like, exaggerated, warm and cordial. Children’s parents are overjoyed, grace is added. On the contrary, people are generally lack of looks, especially those who look ugly children, the lack of enthusiasm, and even indifference, discrimination and sarcasm. People treat children as well, let alone adults. Beautiful people, especially young women, will win the favor of others in matters such as interpersonal communication and marriage, arouse the enthusiasm of others, and things are often easy to handle. In contrast, phase