曾经有一个网友,向我倾诉她的苦恼:没考上好大学,在家找不到工作,来北京,找了份待遇很低的临时工作,很快被辞退了,每天去图书馆读书。她说想考研。我说别读了,先养活自己吧。简单粗暴地说,读书更适宜有钱有闲的人。真正的读书是一件回报期很长的事,要做好三五年不会带来任何收益的准备。孩子应该从小读书,因为小时候可以许多年不考虑回报。一旦错过那个阶段,就应当意识到,当务之急是承担责 There was a netizen who told me about her distress: I did not go to college and did not get a job at home. I came to Beijing and found a temporary job with a very low pay. I was immediately dismissed and went to the library every day to study. She said she wanted to graduate. I said do not read, feed yourself first. Simple and crude to say, reading is more suitable for rich and leisurely people. The real reading is a long period of return, to be prepared in 35 years will not bring any benefits. Children should study at an early age, because when you are young, you can think about rewards for many years. Once you have missed that stage, you should be aware that it is imperative to assume responsibility