别误会,我们并不是要为性爱暴力唱赞歌。不过,性欲在成为一种沟通形式之前,首先是一种冲动,它原始、本能,充满攻击意味。现在,这种攻击性也开始成为需要被撩拨的能量。无论男性女性,基本上都有动物性,这是李安导演拍完《色·戒》后的感想之一。电影常常是我们的性爱导师。我们也可以在性爱中加入一些“暴力”吗?性欲首先是一种冲动“今天,当我们讨论美满性爱的必要条件时,总是过分关注柔情蜜意,而忽略甚至忘却了攻击性。”法国性学家布里吉特· Do not misunderstand, we do not want to sing hymns for sex violence. However, sexuality before becoming a form of communication, first of all, is an impulse, it is primitive, instinctive, full of attack means. Now, this offensive has also begun to become the need to be energetic. Both men and women, basically have animal nature, this is one of the feelings after the director Ang Lee shot “color ring”. Movies are often our love mates. Can we also add some “Violence” to sex? Sexuality is first and foremost an impulse. “Today, when we discuss the necessary conditions for a perfect sex, we always pay too much attention to tenderness and ignore or even forget aggressiveness . ”French scholar Brigitte