我的儿子上小学一年级,他的班主任老师要结婚了。儿子听说一些同学要参加老师婚礼,还要送老师礼物,于是回家吵着要我们也给老师送礼。老师其实并没有在班里提及结婚的消息,是其他同学的家长打听到的。我们不愿意这样做,但又不知如何对孩子解释。同时也担心,如果别的同学给老师送礼了,而我们没有,孩子会不会被老师另眼看待?张纯颖:老师结婚,确实是一件值得祝贺的事。但学生要为此送礼吗?我的回 My son is in first grade, and his class teacher is getting married. Son heard that some students to attend the teacher’s wedding, but also to send gifts to teachers, so go home arguing that we also give the teacher a gift. In fact, the teacher did not mention the news of marriage in the class, is the parents of other students to find out. We do not want to do this, but we do not know how to explain to our children. At the same time also worried that if other students give gifts to teachers, and we do not, the children will not be another look at the teacher? Zhang Chunying: The teacher married, is indeed a worthy congratulation thing. But are students gifting for it?