一、焦虑的妈妈今天一个妈妈约了咨询,可是整整晚了30分钟,进来之后,妈妈就急急忙忙把孩子推到我面前:“请您看看这个孩子哪里出了问题,为什么和周围的环境格格不入?”见过很多着急的家长,还没有见过这样什么也没有交代就开始咨询的。于是我先请孩子回避,然后和妈妈坐下来,了解她此行的目的以及她对孩子的看法。妈妈介绍说自己的孩子现在七岁,从小到大一直很麻烦,两岁才开始说话,有多动症,在家里很不听话,在学校无法和同学相处,像个小刺猬,总之问题很多很杂,所 First, the anxious mother about a mother today about the consultation, but the whole night 30 minutes, came in, the mother hurriedly pushed the child in front of me: “Please look at this child where a problem, why and around Environment? ”" Have seen a lot of anxious parents, have not seen anything like this did not account for the beginning of counseling. So I asked the child to avoid, and then sit down with her mother to understand the purpose of her trip and her views on children. My mother said her child is now seven years old, has been very troublesome from an early age, began to speak two years old, ADHD, at home is not obedient, unable to get along with classmates in school, like a hedgehog, in short, a lot of very complicated, The