中国古时的婚姻制度一向被人所诟病,谓其没有婚姻自由。虽然一个嫁娶过程郑重其事地经历了“纳彩、纳吉、亲迎”等六道手续,但当事人安居幕后,无关人员在忙活,真有点后世人所谓的“皇帝不急太监急”的味道。由于婚姻被媒妁和父母大人包办,当事人想来必难享受恋爱的乐趣,这一下,人 The marriage system in ancient China has always been criticized, saying it has no freedom of marriage. Although a process of marriage has gone through six formalities, such as “satisfied Choi, Najib, pro-welcome” and so on, the parties concerned have to live behind the scenes, "the taste of. Since marriage is arranged by the media and the parents, the parties want to enjoy the pleasure of being in love