转眼间儿子已经15岁了,每当我看到学期末儿子抱回家的一叠奖状,听着街坊邻居、同事的每每赞誉之词,我的心里总是感到沉甸甸的。作为孩子的第一任老师,行使教育孩子的权利和义务,关心孩子的衣、食、住、行,教育孩子在漫漫的人生路上一路走好,尽在情理之中。然而,怎样才能做个称职的父亲,当个合格的好爸呢? 讲和气,常沟通。随着孩子年龄的增长,自主意识的不断增强,我越来越重视与孩子的沟通,像儿子在学校里发生的新鲜事,某某老师、某某同学如何,我已经习惯在饭前饭后悉心倾听儿子的“慷慨陈词”。同时站在一个家长的角度,有时要求儿子细说端详,有时谈谈我的看法,引导儿子树立正确的为人处事观。有一次,儿子不知从哪里弄来一件红色的上衣穿在身上,自我感觉还挺好的样子。我没有埋 At a twinkling of an eye his son was 15 years old. Whenever I saw a pile of certificates of encouragement from my son at the end of the semester, listening to the often-praised words of neighbors and colleagues in my quartet, my heart always felt heavy. As a child’s first teacher, exercise the rights and obligations of educating children, care about children’s clothing, food, shelter, transportation, education, children in the long road along the way, make all reasonableness. However, how to be a competent father, a qualified good dad? As children grow older and their sense of autonomy grows, I pay more and more attention to communicating with my children. As the new things happen to my son in school, I am accustomed to using certain teachers and classmates Carefully listen to his son’s “generous speech.” At the same time standing in the perspective of a parent, sometimes asked his son to elaborate, and sometimes talk about my views, and guide their son to establish the right people doing things. Once, my son did not know where to get a red shirt to wear on the body, I feel pretty good look. I did not bury