在沉湎于各种言情小说中的我看来,人到中年的父母一点也不浪漫,虽然他们才四十多岁,可是早以“老头子、老太婆”相称,他们之间既没有紫薇与尔康般的轰轰烈烈,也没有三毛与荷西的缠绵悱恻,更没有杰克与罗丝的激烈悲壮,他们有的,只是平平淡淡。有一次我问爸爸到底懂不懂什么叫“ In my opinion of all kinds of romantic novels, the parents of middle-aged people are not romantic at all. Although they were in their forties, they were commensurate with the “old man and old woman”. There was neither between them. Kang was vigorous and vigorous, and there were no lingering encounters between San Mao and Jose, nor did Jack and Rose’s fierce tragic emotions. Some of them were just plain and faint. I once asked my father if he knew what he meant.