这几天在微博上看到,一名长沙网友发帖称,闺蜜结婚,4个平时关系不错的同事来赴宴,合包了200元红包,把新娘脸都气绿了。看后有些困惑,这种“开不了口”的事放到台面上公开说,恰当吗?不过转念一想,如果我也收到了一个这样的红包,会有怎样的心情呢?中国人讲究礼尚往来,喜欢送礼。结婚喜事年年有,更免不了送礼的事儿。只不过,现代人讲究效率和实在,与其费尽心思挑选 In the past few days to see on the microblogging, a Changsha netizen posting said girlfriends get married, four usually good relations colleagues to feast, co-packaged 200 yuan red envelopes, the bride’s face is angry green. After reading some puzzles, this “can not open mouth ” thing on the table openly say, right? But then I thought, if I also received a such a red envelope, what kind of mood? Chinese Pay attention to reciprocity, like gifts. Marriage wedding every year, but also inevitable gift thing. However, modern people pay attention to efficiency and reality, rather than hard-working selection