市场经济与人口迁移是打破传统社会关系的两大力量。我们不再称同志,宁愿叫老板。脱离单位体制后个人游离于社会,或按市场规则重组,或回归血缘地缘怀抱,亦或者,在互联网的虚拟平台上拉帮结派——人是所有社会关系的总和。中国人最难面对的三面就是人面、情面和场面。我们是要功利主义的同学会,还是要理想主义的好友会?“同志”称谓的衰落映照60年中国人际关 Market economy and population migration are two major forces that break the traditional social relations. We no longer call comrades, preferring to call the boss. After leaving the unit system, individuals are separated from society or reorganized according to market rules or returned to their bloodline generics or, alternatively, they are all on the virtual platform of the Internet - people are the sum of all social relations. The three most difficult faces of the Chinese are human faces, feelings and scenes. We are to be utilitarian classmates, or to the idealist friends? “Comrade ” the decline of appellation reflects the 60 years of Chinese people