笔者常常听到一些家长嘱咐孩子要“听话”。诸如,爸爸要出差了,要求孩子在家“听话”;妈妈上班了,要求孩子“听话”;孩子上幼儿园,又要求孩子“听话”;带孩子上朋友家作客,还是要求孩子“听话”……“听话”几乎成了家长们的口头禅了。教育孩子听话,使他们朝着家长所期望的目标成 I often hear some parents asked the children to be “obedient.” Such as, my father is on a business trip, requiring children to be “obedient” at home; mother goes to work and asks children to “obey”; children go to kindergarten and ask their children to be “obedient”; “Obedient” almost became the mantra of parents. Educate your children to obey and aim them toward their parents’ expectations